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my personal updates

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entering my side hustle era

Working full-time as a content creator is the absolute dream job, but since I am not seeing any consistent flow of income yet for either my blog or vlog channel at the moment, I need flexible hours to make this a reality.

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my 2024 word of the year: worth

It took me over 30 years to finally realize my worth

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creating my 2024 vision board

it's that time again to create a vision board for the new year!

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🎄Merry Christmas & an update for 2024

Hello, readers! And Merry Christmas! I hope you got everything that you wished for and enjoying your presents right now. Consider this as my digital Christmas card 🎅🏽🤶🏽 After months of deciding what direction I wanted to take for my blog, my YouTube channel, AND adding in a newsletter into the

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[PAID] VLOGMAS 2023 - Week 1

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Vlogmas 2023 & Extended Cuts!

It's a YouTube challenge which you vlog and upload content for 25 days up until Christmas. Vlogmas goes beyond YouTube now - so it's fun to see what creative ways content creators are doing each year.

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my sad girl spotify playlist

I don’t know what happened, but I stopped creating Spotify playlists during my last relationship. I would always make a playlist to capture songs that I was into that year with all the new songs or artists that I’ve discovered.

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i created my first journal prompt pack

journaling is my no-cost therapy and y'all should give it a try

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i'm not a tech reviewer 😅

I know I'm currently on this whole budgeting/savings journey but I made an irrational but not-really-irrational impulse buy to get the Google Pixel 8 Pro as my new vlogging phone.

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How I'm adjusting from NYC to Chicago and more

It's been 6 months since my move from NYC to Chicago and things are A LOT better since I've been here.

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Welcome to Money Mondays!

My biggest culprit when I spend money is mainly shopping for new clothes or a new ✨shiny thing✨ like a plush or gadget I’m probably never going to use after 3 times using it.

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an overdue recap | August 2023

Accepting that it's ok to start over again and again with life, rebranding, and everything else in-between.

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Being Tita Jem

Rekindled Love

Rekindled Love: journaling

As I'm getting older, I'm realizing how important it is to journal or take photos or video of everything that I'm doing because my memory is starting to get hazy.

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Welcome to the Windy City

I made it! I’ve experienced my first full week here in Chicago, and honestly, I’ve been feeling good. I haven’t cried as much as I thought I would be. I’m feeling a bit at peace with life right now.

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Moving update

I thought I had more time, but once I looked at the calendar, I realized I need to full steam ahead with the packing.

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2023 Personal Goals | April update

Time freaking FLIES and we’re already at my first quarterly update for my personal goals. Honestly, I think we’re on track so far.

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Feeling rejected. Letting go. Leaving the past behind.

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My 2023 personal goals

I do tend to overwhelm myself with ambitious goals, I think this year I’m going to set smaller goals with realistic deadlines.

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Dear Future Partner: Flowers

And as someone who had crazy allergies growing up, I never got to appreciate or enjoy flowers nor ever received them. I would tell my past boyfriends not to give me any because I didn’t want to risk getting into a hay fever.

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Learning to love my insecurities

I’m finally in a place where I’m acknowledging these negative thoughts or recognizing when I’m feeling triggered then practicing to calm myself down.

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I'm ready for my next chapter

This next chapter of my life will definitely be life-changing for me since it’ll be the first time that I’ll be on my own.

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I'm leaving NYC and moving to Chicago

I truly saw myself living in this city for some reason, and something felt just right when I was there.

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2023: The year of being vulnerable

I knew that I was good at writing about are the thoughts and feelings that I was experiencing in the intense moments of my life. Blogging felt so natural to me.